Showing posts with label interesting reads. Show all posts
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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Controversy is brewing locally…

I would LOVE to have a discussion on this, how do you feel about death row inmates being organ donors? Please let me know in the comments. 


Death row inmate Longo wants to be organ donor

by Frank Mungeam
Posted on December 17, 2009 at 8:22 AM
Updated today at 8:22 AM

SALEM, Ore. (AP) -- Death Row inmate Christian Longo has launched a Web site to campaign to become an organ donor.
A Corrections Department spokeswoman, Jennifer Black, says it considers organ donations on a case-by-case basis. One case was a bone marrow transplant for a prisoner's relative.Black told The Statesman Journal officials don't want prisoners selling their organs.
Longo is facing the death penalty for killing his wife and three children.

Another Article w/ more information is here on KATU

The Website started by Longo is http://www.gavelife.org/

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

The Law of the Garbage Truck

This came to me from a friend … I’ve seen it in different versions…all good…


How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood? Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, crude boss, Or an insensitive employee ruin your day? Unless you're the Terminator, for an instant you're probably set back on your heels. However, the mark of a successful person is how quickly he or she can get their focus back on what's important.....Life!

Sixteen years ago I learned this lesson. I learned it in the back of a New York City taxi cab. Here's what happened.
I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Grand Central Station. We were driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car's back end by just inches!
The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident, whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was friendly. So, I said, "Why did you just do That? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the Hospital!" and this is when my taxi driver told me what I now call, "The Law of the Garbage Truck."

 

Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, Full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it. And if you let them, they'll dump it on you. When someone wants to dump on you, don't take it personally. You just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. You'll be happy you did.

So this was it: “The Law of the Garbage Truck" I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over me? How often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people? At work, at home, on the streets? It was that day I said, "I'm not going to do it anymore."

I began to see Garbage Trucks. Like in the movie "The Sixth Sense," the little boy said, "I see Dead People."
Well, now "I see Garbage Trucks." I see the load they're carrying. I see them coming to drop it off. And like my Taxi driver, I don't make it a personal thing; I just smile, wave, wish them well, and I move on.

One of my favorite football players of all time, Walter Payton, he did this every day on the football field. He would jump up as quickly as he hit the ground after being tackled and handed the ref the football. He never dwelled on a hit. Payton was ready to make the next play his best. Good leaders know they have to be ready for their next meeting. Good parents know that they have to welcome their children home from school with hugs and kisses. Leaders and parents know that they have to be fully present, and at their best for the people they care about.
The bottom line is that successful people do not let Garbage Trucks take over their day.

What about you?

What would happen in your life, starting today, if you let more garbage trucks pass you by?

I look forward to reading your comments on this one … so comment away!

Tuesday, August 04, 2009

An amazing tool!!

 

Have you ever heard of the Magic Bullet Blender?

 

MagBul-Body

 

I purchased this from a friend of mine a couple years ago (she got a 2 for 1 and didn’t need 2). It is used in this household nearly everyday to make everything from Salsa, guacamole… to frozen sorbet! I can’t speak highly enough of it!!

 

 

 basil

Today I harvested a huge colander full of Basil from our container garden and I knew I wanted to make Pesto and  it for the Winter. For the past couple years I’ve only used what you see in the picture, but I remember seeing the Infomercial this past week and noticing they were juicing w/ a Blender attachment. I suddenly remembered that I HAVE THAT ATTACHMENT!

 

So tonight I pulled it out of the cabinet, took the Juicer center out and OMGosh I have a Blender with a pestle plunger!! I put ALL the Basil into the blender attachment, added my olive oil, garlic, pepper, salt, pine nuts and parmesan, put the lid on and clicked it into the base. With the pestle I pushed it all down and within a minute, I had PESTO!!

 

It’s now divided into 2 zipper lock bags, dated and put into a larger freezer bag for us to use this winter.

(Oh, for the record…I did NOT receive a penny from the Magic Bullet people for this, in fact, I need to replace mine soon, anyone have a connection? lol)

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Homemade Laundry Detergent

Awhile back, someone asked for this recipe in my comments, sorry it took so long to actually do this post on it. From my (in real life) friend Mama Fox at http://foxfamilyfive.blogspot.com


Homemade Laundry Detergent

Cost is for Oregon @ Fred Meyer, we have NO sales tax here!


1 Fells Naptha Soap Bar=$1.29 (makes 1 batch)
1 box of Arm and Hammer WASHING Soda=$3.29 (makes 6 1/2 batches)
1 box Borax Laundry Booster=$5.50 (makes 19 batches)

Essential Oils for scent (optional)

1--5 gal. bucket with a lid. Any clean one will do. I bought one at Fred Meyer for $4.
Hot water
1--Grater for soap (I used the slicer/shredder/Grater attachment for my KitchenAid this is quick and easy but, any grater will do.)

Stove top
Pan for melting down grated soap and water

½ gallon laundry soap container (cleaned out, any container that you can our from will work)


Here are the instructions:


1 bar of soap, grated (I used Fels-Naptha Brand)
1 cup washing soda (Arm & Hammer Brand)
1/2 cup Borax
4 cups HOT water

Grate the soap, and put into a pan on the stove with the 4 cups of HOT water and cook over med low heat until the soap is melted.

Pour into a 5 gallon bucket, add the Borax and Washing Soda and stir well.

Add HOT water (we used the bath tub) to the top of the bucket to equal 5 gallons of liquid.

Let sit over night, this mixture will gel.

Stir well the next morning.

Take the old clean laundry detergent container and add 1 quart of laundry detergent concentrate and 1 quart of HOT water, screw on the top and shake well.

You now have 1/2 gallon of homemade liquid laundry detergent. Shake before each use.

You can add essential oils at this point if you so desire. I picked up some Tea Tree Oil to help with 'disinfecting' and the yummy smell.

Top Load Machine- 5/8 Cup per load (Approx. 180 loads) Front Load Machines- ¼ Cup per load (Approx. 640 loads)

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Quick update ...

Sunday was an emotional rollercoaster.

  • We spread some of Marks ashes at Church,
  • Celebrated with the High School Youth Group on their successful mission trip to Denver Colorado.
  • Remembered the life of Jim Nelson, a wonderful man of Christ.
I thought that was enough ....

Monday morning I woke to the news that the Dougy Center Grief Support building that we have gone to for over a year, was burned down. It appears to be arson.

It was as if someone poured salt in wounds, the pain was tremendous. Why someone would target a place that provides comfort and hope to so many that are already hurting is beyond comprehension.

I watched and read the reports, cried, felt ill. Perhaps my reaction is a bit too much, but I truly do see the difference the program has made in our lives since we started there. I've seen it help others in amazing ways. To see it all in ashes is unfathomable, yet it is.

We go there tonight, we will hold group in the Office next door. Their will be a lot to process. Alot of unknowns at this point. The one thing I do know is that the Dougy Center WILL move past this. It will take the help of many and pretty soon, money needs to roll in for the project. It's more than a building, there was so much inside to replace, and yet so much that can't be replaced. It seriously is like a family member is gone now.

I will post more about this, My family is planning something to do...

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Emotions run wild ....

I dragged myself to Church this morning, not because I didn't want to go, but because I was out with friends last night and didn't get much sleep, getting more sleep is always a good thing.

Kiddo was grumpy, whining about this, that and the other thing, my patience was thin. During the children's message he sat up on the stage flipping a quarter, never missing it, but continually moving as he does. As the service progressed, he opened up and shared "I miss my Dad", and he shed a few tears.

Today was Mission Sunday and our Haiti Mission was honored. This one is close to my heart, Haiti is where Mark and I were going to move to this summer to do the Lords work and help the people of Les Anglais and the poverty stricken Beach Village, live a fulfilling life.

We listened to the testimonials of 4 Mission Team members and then a video started. Watching the people of Les Anglais laugh, smile, literally drag themselves into the medical clinic is emotional and overwhelming. Knowing what our team went through to get there, emotional. And then it happened, Jim Shaw talking to the people of the Beach Village about Mark and spreading his ashes there, where he wanted to be. The tears flowed, I couldn't hold them back. Tim held me, he rocked me, and all I could do was cry, tears of sorrow as I do miss Mark here, but also cries of happiness as I am comforted in knowing that the Beach Village IS where Mark wanted to be and this group was able to make that happen for us.

I am so blessed in this world. Blessed that Mark was an amazing part of my life. Blessed that the Lord gave us our kiddo. Blessed that I had kiddo to focus on in the aftermath of Marks sudden death, it truly IS what got me through the past (nearly) 3 years. Blessed that I am surrounded by some amazing Christians that have walked with me, behind me, in front of me and carried me when needed. Blessed that I have my sister and Clark to support me when needed. Blessed that the Lord saw fit to bring Tim into my life, an amazing man that loves myself and kiddo for who we are AND is there to carry me when needed without judging me.

I am a sinner, I am human, I am a mother, daughter, sister, wife, friend. I am a Believer of the Lord, and I am incredibly Grateful for this Lord that accepts me as I am.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Ch..ch...cha...changes

I'm getting back into blogging here. I am also following some pretty amazing blogs and will share them in the coming days and weeks ahead, too much to do right now though. I've added two Blog buttons to my right hand sidebar that I'm drawn to right now.

Prayers for Stellan


and



There are more, for now though I'll leave you with those. The Lord is working HARD on my heart today, I ask for prayers. I'm not sure where He is taking me at this time.

Blessings,

Marissa

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

Another AMAZING God moment!

The Lord is good...ok, he's GREAT! (boy did THIS get long!)

I've shared so much of our family ventures over the past couple of years, I wanted to take a moment and update y'all (I have family in GA, I can say that right? )....Last year saw Mark taking on our HS Youth program as an Interim Director, and then, in August, become full-time at the Church AND become a Certified Youth Minister by the end of October. We were literally 2 months from not being able to pay our mortgage any longer because for him to do this, we agreed to maintain our current Training Clients but not expanding his business. I went looking for a job and found one at Comcast Cable (just call me the Cable Girl )... the hours are not perfect but it's money and it's FUN!

Well here we are getting ready to close out 2005, we're about 85% caught up on our bills I just went to the Pharmacy and the Manager looked up a prescription and said "We didn't run this through your new Insurance...and this one, and this one..." I ended up getting 3 prescriptions, toothpaste, toothbrush, a 24 pack of coke and $150 in change Then I come home to find that his Dental Insurance covered our cleanings at 100%!! NO COPAY!!

Two weeks ago, Mark connected with a Lutheran Pastor in New Orleans about doing their annual concert tour there this coming June with his youth. His heart has really been pulled, wanting to get these kids to see the "real world" instead of only the "silver platter" they have grown up on...it's always a struggle with the parents and church members. He knew he had to handle this carefully. The Pastor emailed immediately, said "check out this website, I know it's geared towarda adults but read it all and call me right away". When Mark called in, the Pastor had taken off to one of the shelters in Baton Rouge, they secretary gave Mark the Pastors cell # with instructions to call him immediately.

Mark gets off the phone with Pastor Dave and calls me in shock. He and the Choir Director are flying to New Orleans on Jan 9th and returning home on January 13th. While there, they will be setting up the structure for a youth service program in New Orleans. The Lutheran Church (both ELCA and Missouri Synod) have received many requests/offers from Youth groups through the Country wanting to go in and help, but none of the Youth Leaders have any experience putting together the logistics of a trip like this so they've had to put them off...well Mark has ALOT of this experience and this group has been touring like this for almost 30 years. Well he's now he's setting it up for the Lutheran Churches! Our Youth Group (if all goes well) will be the FIRST group of 18 and under allowed into the "Hot Zone" in June. The ELCA and Missouri-Synod are working together to sponsor them. The kids will have to pay airfare and for some meals, but they will be hosted overnight and given breakfast and dinner daily by the Churches. Each day, they will be assigned a work activity and at night, they will be leading worships throughout the area.

When I found out about this, and we realized what our calendar and Marks travel schedule looked like, I realized that I had a choice, get a day shift at work, or find a place to work days...there is no way that I can work 2-11 while Mark is gone most of Jan and Feb...so I put in a request knowing that I'd probably be turned down because we bid for shifts 3 times a year. OMG they gave me a 10-7 for Jan and Feb Not perfect but definitely do-able for us. I've already got babysitters lining up to help this WILL work!

So...Mark is gone Jan 6-8 for the annual Mens Retreat. 9th - 13th in New Orleans, 27th - 29th in Seattle WA for the Winter Mini-Tour, 1 3-day weekend in February for the HS Winter Retreat, 10 days in Haiti (Feb)....

My insurance kicks in the 2nd week in January, that saves $300 a month on what we are paying to be on the Churches insurance, which means I will have 2 of our 3 credit cards paid off in 2 months time Mark is seriously considering selling his truck :shock since we've been offered $50,000 AGAIN for it! We can get a new vehicle (yup...he's looking at the new top o' the line Vans with all the bells and whistles) and with my Comcast discount, we can get a new one with Warranty and Service included for like $30,000 WHICH gives us the $$ to pay off everything except for the Mortgage, put $$ back into savings AND still have enough left over to refinish our Kitchen/Dining Room (minus brand new cabinets~which I'm ok with)...

Can I say it again? The Lord is GREAT! There is no way we could have done this without Faith that he is guiding us down the right path. 12 years ago we could not even IMAGINE our life being so fulfilled and enriched! No way! We were living paycheck to paycheck, in an apartment that had a severe mold/mildew problem and no $$ to move to a better place. Drug deals happening all around...OMG it was horrible! The roof leaked terribly, shots being fired and cars stolen weekly in our complex...and NOW...amazing!

I don't know what else to say, we are truly blessed.

Living life ...
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Thank you for sharing your amazing journey. It is so awesome how in the time of everything going on we don't really see his plan. Then after we've gone through it, we realize what he's blessed us with. Truly amazing. I am happy and excited for you all. God blesses those who are obident to him.



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God is amazing when we put our faith in him! What a wonderful gift your family has been given.

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Isn't it awesome when you get to the end of a struggle look back and can really see God carrying you through and where He got you.

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That is awesome Marissa!

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Thanks and YES it is awesome to look back and realize you were never alone in your struggles!

Here is more info on what we are doing in Haiti on our churches website.

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Marissa
your story of this year gave me chills.
You are very blessed and best wishes in all of the church endeavors you and your family are involved with.

I think its great to know that a church group is going into New Orleans to help out.

Dreams Come True, Just Never Give Up on them!
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Marissa. I loved this testimony of faith and God's power to do what we need and then some!

Faithful servant and willing hands, feet and voice for Christ! ><>
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Sounds awesome Marissa I'm so happy for you all!

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How awesome Marissa!! What a testimony to God's faithfulness!!

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WOW Marissa.............This truly is the Lord's work in action.......

for sharing your story with me.....It has touched my heart......In more ways than you will ever know.

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