If I Could Write a Book...

Marissa · 06-21-2006, 09:03 PM

What a day, I can't fully wrap myself around this yet...but the Lord works in amazing ways. You guys are AMAZING!

I have asked that all calls be made to my business line, it can be found at our training site which is in my profile (I will NOT be checking that box until Friday and it will not be answered, in fact I'm turning the ringer off). Pretty amazing that I crashed that website last night and took it down but only left our contact info on it...

We are keeping the main line open as we are coordinating Organ/Tissue donations and travel right now and I need to be available for calls on that line.

Mark, David and I are blessed to have such a strong community of faith and friends surrounding us. The prayers have been felt and will be for time to come. I will be talking to Belinda (FYI Belinda & Jackie

) about putting up a Memorial Site and guest book tomorrow, so look for that information.

That's about all I can handle, thank you for the calls, but like I said, I need them to go to my other line.

Blessings to each of you.

Marissa

FYI - the page address for the Memorial Site is http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm - that is where any/all specific local details as far as arrangements will be posted as they become available as well. ~Belinda

christy · 06-21-2006, 09:05 PM

Marissa, you absolutely AMAZE me. Your strength is inspiring. Please know that we love you!!

***Steve*** · 06-21-2006, 09:06 PM

If there's anything we can do, just let us know. We are here for you, whatever your needs might be.

jackie · 06-21-2006, 09:08 PM

Marissa you are such a huge part of our BoB family and we're here for you if you need anything. I will be happy to help you with the site or whatever you need and know that Belinda will too. Just say the word.

Huge hugs going out to you and David tonight and each day forward. I have added you and David to our church prayer chain and of course you will be on my mind and in my heart.

MistryUnique · 06-21-2006, 09:08 PM

Thank you for the organ donation - I know it's hard, but God is good. What an awesome gift you are giving people.

May the Lord bless you and hold you and comfort you in the days to come.

If there is any assistance needed (financially) contact your local Lion's Club - they may be able to help.

Misty

***Laura612*** · 06-21-2006, 09:08 PM

JustB · 06-21-2006, 09:36 PM

Marissa, your strength is mind boggling. I am thankful you are surrounded by friends and they are helping you through this difficult time. But, I also think you are helping them cope as well.

Thank you for your gift of life with the donation of Mark's organs. Through you, Mark is able to continue his journey in making this world a better place.

Please take care of yourself and know you have a whole community on BoB that is here for you.

kathi B · 06-21-2006, 09:40 PM

I am at a loss for words but feel that I must say something. Your strength through this is amazing. I cannot imaging what you are going through and my heart is breaking for you. You do not know me but I have been a lurker in this community for such a long time that I feel like I know you. I have followed every post about you, your family and Mark's mission trips. I know he is with his heavenly father watching over you and everyone he loaved. He was a special person and will continue to share his life with many people for years to come through the organ donation.

You, David and all your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that we can do for you do not be afraid to speak up.

Kathi

mikandles · 06-21-2006, 09:43 PM

Bless you and your family!

BunnyOf3 · 06-21-2006, 10:16 PM

Continued prayers for you and David Marissa!!

and

tinkr30 · 06-21-2006, 10:46 PM

Marissa, I love you, my fellow news hound.

You are amazing. You know that God is good and he has a plan.

Take care of you through all this, don't forget that.

Denise

eaglesdare · 06-22-2006, 05:21 AM

Marissa it is so good to hear from you. i just can't stop thinking of you. Please take care of yourself, my fellow 24 fan.

praying.

candlheil · 06-22-2006, 05:54 AM

Marissa,

I am on here to say that you are indeed in my thoughts and prayers. I had a very hard time sleeping last night, so prayed during most of it for you guys. I really wish that I were there so that I could ease some of that heavy load that is on your shoulders. Also sent out some emails to believing family members and our friends from church asking for prayers for all of you.

If there is anything at all that you need, please let us know.

Leah

DebbieLynne · 06-22-2006, 06:01 AM

My uncle was the recipient of a donated heart.

I thank everyone who donates organs. You don't know what this will do for other families. You continue to be in my prayers.

DebbieLynne

2B

odyssey912 · 06-22-2006, 06:07 AM

to you and yours Marissa

Melissa

SheilaWisconsin · 06-22-2006, 06:23 AM

belindaj · 06-22-2006, 06:25 AM

Of course Jackie and I will help you in any way we can when you're ready.

I know right now yo're being inundated with calls and tasks and not being able to absorb all this. Hopefully the massive prayers across the country will continue to hold you and David tight and lift you up through the coming weeks.

glogoddess · 06-22-2006, 06:32 AM

Marissa...it is so awesome to see your strenth shine through. Continued

from me and mine. I've asked for prayers from my community also! You are a dear sweet sister and it is my distinct pleasure to have shared with you the good times and now....do take care of YOU!!!!!

mmm0708 · 06-22-2006, 06:56 AM

Lauri · 06-22-2006, 07:01 AM

for you and David - as said before, your strength amazes me - and through Marks donations, hopefully more lives will be saved - you all are in my thoughts and prayers!

Lauri

*Melinda* · 06-22-2006, 07:22 AM

More prayers and more hugs

janie · 06-22-2006, 07:33 AM

I am still here - you are an amazing woman! Let those around you who love & care for you take care of you & David. Please, its so important to let them, they love you so much! Our family & our church is praying for your family.

Zylafone · 06-22-2006, 07:40 AM

Continued

and

for you and David. I'm glad you made the organ donation decision.

Anne R · 06-22-2006, 07:59 AM

Anne and family. We all are praying for your family.

MindyS · 06-22-2006, 08:06 AM

I am so sorry to hear about your loss - What a wonderful way for Mark to continue to shine in this world - You have changed so many peoples lives forever, may you have peace in knowing that. There are so many people here that love you and are here for whatever you need.
Please take care of yourself! and we will continue to pray for you and your family.

HeidiHo · 06-22-2006, 09:18 AM

Continued prayers...

bella1021 · 06-22-2006, 09:21 AM

continuing the

and

HeidiM · 06-22-2006, 09:27 AM

Marissa:

ers for the coming days and strength for David and you.

~ Heidi

Rainbow · 06-22-2006, 09:29 AM

Continued prayers...

Kim · 06-22-2006, 09:33 AM

Marissa your strength and faith are speaking volumes right now. Continued prayers.

Darleen · 06-22-2006, 09:36 AM

Darleen

melphy · 06-22-2006, 09:43 AM

belindaj · 06-22-2006, 10:05 AM

FYI - the page address for the Memorial Site is http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm - that is where any/all specific local details as far as arrangements will be posted as they become available as well. ~Belinda

*charmedone* · 06-22-2006, 10:18 AM

Thank you Belinda!!!

Kelly

Anne R · 06-22-2006, 10:19 AM

Thanks Belinda

glogoddess · 06-22-2006, 10:22 AM

Thanks for the update Belinda!!!

Kandi · 06-22-2006, 04:19 PM

Any updates on how they are doing? Does anyone know if the youth are coming home early?

Still

and thinking of them

~K~

Marissa · 06-22-2006, 06:22 PM

I'll post this here and it may be merged into the other thread.

I did well last night. David stayed with good friends and had a BLAST with them as always. Pr. John and I explained to him earlier in the day what had happened and that Jesus needed Daddy to take care of the kids in heaven. We also said that Daddy was now with his Daddy and Grandpa who he hasn't seen in a long time. It was explained that he was allowed to be sad or happy and he didn't need to worry about crying or not. He gave me HUGE hugs...he's a good hugger! When asked if he had any questions, you can probably guess..."Can I sleep on Daddys side of the bed? " Yes... "Ok, can I go play gameboy now?"

You betcha! Gotta love that kid!

I spoke to him this morning and he's doing well. He said that he is happy and having fun. I asked him if he remembered where Daddy was and he said "In Heaven with Jesus", this boy will be fine!

Today has been spent on the phone, making travel arrangements for Mark, finalizing Organ donations...being AMAZED at the support that is flowing through...everytiime I think I can't be overwhelmed by generosity, something else is given to me.

We are changing the trust fund for David to a Memorial Fund...members of the Church want to be sure that they can donate regularly to keep Marks Salary coming in for us. They are putting a new roof on my house, they want College $$ for David to be there...they are sending over their landscapers and window washers and members are paying the costs...the list goes on and on...

So that's where we stand. We're aiming for a Wednesday or Thursday Funeral, the Kids will be singing (no old hymns here...we're gonna CELEBRATE!). Mark is eligible for Military Honors so we're exploring that also, I have to talk w/ his family about this.

Once again, Thank you for your calls (I've seen the out of state numbers on the caller ID), prayers and posts. The Guestbook is awesome!

I just spoke to Marks closest ministry support person, the Kids had an AMAZING DAY! Marks Necklace was on the microphone and they sang their hearts out, he said it was their best performance yet...I could hear them laughing and playing in the background and he's going to pass on to them how overjoyed I am to hear that, it's EXACTLY how Mark would want it to be.

Again, you guys are awesome, I can't say that enough.

Blessings to each of you, now go love on your families!

eaglesdare · 06-22-2006, 06:30 PM

oh my....this was very hard to read, i am now sitting here with tears in my eyes.

you are such a strong person marissa!

sending all the

i can send

belindaj · 06-22-2006, 06:32 PM

That is awesome Marissa - I love hearing how your church is supporting you and looking after your future needs as well as present ones.

Don't worry - there's more in the works on the website - it's just going to take some time since I am fully committed the next three days and won't be home hardly at all - but I did want to be sure to get the guestbook up and running today

Traci · 06-22-2006, 06:35 PM

Marissa~
You are a pillar of strength! Continued prayers!

~Traci

*scrapnmyfaith* · 06-22-2006, 06:52 PM

Wow!

I am so glad your church family is pouring out their blessings on you. What an amazing thing they are doing.

I am just speechless at what you have written. You and David will continue to be in my prayers.

glogoddess · 06-22-2006, 07:04 PM

Such an overflow of blessings coming your way. God is really watching out over his faithful servant! May you continue to be overwhelmed with the support and love of all HIS

!!!

Kandi · 06-22-2006, 07:55 PM

Sounds like things are going good, well as good as they can go. Continued prayers for you Marissa, you are constantly on my mind.

~K~

BunnyOf3 · 06-22-2006, 08:39 PM

What an awesome support system, you and your family are truly blessed!

Continued

and

s for you and David!

of3

Lizzie · 06-22-2006, 08:56 PM

Contined

Liz

janie · 06-22-2006, 09:09 PM

God is AMAZING!

tinkr30 · 06-23-2006, 12:23 AM

Wow!

Just a note. As soon as I read this Judy Garland starting singing Over the Rainbow.

Denise

Lynn · 06-23-2006, 04:29 AM

Denise that is very weird, but

Marissa, I cannot get you and David out of my mind.....

you

Carrie · 06-23-2006, 06:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eaglesdare

oh my....this was very hard to read, i am now sitting here with tears in my eyes.

you are such a strong person marissa!

sending all the

i can send

My thoughts exactly - the strength you have Marissa is amazing - I am so glad you have that much support. You make me want to become a better person!

Carrie

AW$UMone · 06-23-2006, 06:22 AM

Quote:

oh my....this was very hard to read, i am now sitting here with tears in my eyes.

I have been keeping my others in the whats happening & I just had to read it to a friend. They send thier

Marrissa~ Remeber the power of prayer.

~Angie~

Gena · 06-23-2006, 06:26 AM

Quote:

"Can I sleep on Daddys side of the bed? " Yes... "

Wow, that did me in.

I am so impressed by the church stepping up like they are. That is what a church family is for.

I am glad you are surrounded by people who love you, and that the Lord has give David such peace over this. Remember we are only a post/call/email away if you need anything!!!!

DawnaJ · 06-23-2006, 06:36 AM

I am so thankful you have the support and blessings you have through this. You are still in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could be there with you.

Yes, Mark would have wanted this to be a celebration of his life and of his going to be with his Lord.

I think he would be very pleased.

Zylafone · 06-23-2006, 07:29 AM

Oh, Marissa! You are such a strong woman. It sounds like David will be just fine - a strong little boy (wonder where he got that from?). I'm so glad that your church family is really stepping in to help you and support you in so many ways. I think the overwhelming amount of support they are giving you speaks volumes about how wonderful Mark was and how wonderful you and David are.

Thank God for all of your

.

mbuttercup7 · 06-23-2006, 07:38 AM

Brat! · 06-23-2006, 07:43 AM

LOVE YOU Riss, my friend!

I am so thankful that you are receiving support from everyone. I am sure Mark is looking down at all of this with a humble heart. Continued prayers and huge

for you and David.

Carol

Anne R · 06-23-2006, 09:16 AM

It is wonderful to hear that they are stepping up and helping with all that needs to be done. Music to my ears that David is doing so well and you.

On a side note, after the initial shock when I told Josh about Mark and You, a few hours later he says 'if she needs anyone to do yard work, I'll do it for her, anything she needs or needs help with, I'm more than happy to help.' I'll let him know it is already being taken care of.

odyssey912 · 06-23-2006, 09:27 AM

Marissa - we have never met but just reading through the posts and seeing the threads the last couple of days you are an amazing person

I can also see how special Mark was to everyone and his life will certainly be celebrated. I had to giggle and cry at the same time when you posted David's response - what an inspirational little boy

Continued

Melissa

mtcandlelady · 06-23-2006, 09:48 AM

Marissa
continued

You are an amazing woman, I have always thought so, and now you prove it again with your strength and Love for your family and your beautiful little boy!
What awonderful church you are part of!!
I am so glad that they are all there for you at this time.

What a wonderful celebration it must of been!

Cheryl

Lauri · 06-23-2006, 09:49 AM

What wonderful support you are receiving! You are so strong - and sounds like you and David are going to make it - god bless you both!

Lauri

Stacy · 06-23-2006, 10:21 AM

What a beautiful post. Your church family and friends are beautiful.

S

Leah · 06-23-2006, 10:59 AM

Continued

ers and

to you and David.

Marissa · 06-23-2006, 05:46 PM

The Memorial Site:http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm
(has been updated with more inclusive details of what happened Wednesday.

Thanks to each and every one of you again...

Gena · 06-23-2006, 06:23 PM

I couldn't get the link to work, so here is the one from earlier in the thread.

Marissa.

LindaEnergizerToney · 06-23-2006, 08:37 PM

Marissa -

I haven't posted on here in a very long time, but I wanted to say my thoughts are with you. As others have said - it's unimaginable to think of what you're going through. Couple of comments and observations...

FIRST - I'm glad I caught you on the phone the other night - I was expecting to simply leave a message with your sister, and was surprised, and pleased you took the phone. I was at a loss for words, and after I hung up, I kept thinking how amazingly strong your voice sounded, and how in control you seemed!!

NEXT - I know it's at great cost and an immense sacrifice, but the generosity you are showing with organ donation amazes me!!! You will be responsible not only for improved health for some, but actually for the lives of others. What a wonderful legacy from your husband.

FINALLY - It appears you have an enormous support system. There's not much I can do for you from NY, but I'll add my offer to the countless others - if you need a venting session - you know how to find me.

When my MIL lost her battle to cancer in 1984 a card we received noted:

"After a birth, there is crying, while those who watch, smile, and after a death, there is smiling while those who watch, cry." That thought has stayed with me all these years, and I often think of it.

Stacy · 06-24-2006, 12:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LindaEnergizerToney

"After a birth, there is crying, while those who watch, smile, and after a death, there is smiling while those who watch, cry." That thought has stayed with me all these years, and I often think of it.

Wow. That's so powerful.

S

Mare · 06-24-2006, 03:44 AM

What a beautiful memorial site! I pray the Lord continues to bless you abundantly Marissa and David.

Marissa · 06-25-2006, 12:39 AM

I continue to be amazed by this Journey, I will start journaling it on my Blog I suppose but for now it goes here. There was a story on our main newspapers website last night, and tonight it is on one of our major news stations, apparently the AP has picked it up somehow. http://www.kgw.com/news-local/storie....ba78fd59.html

Mare · 06-25-2006, 12:46 AM

Awww, what an awesome article about Mark, and an awesome picture too!!

Marissa · 06-25-2006, 12:57 AM

Thanks Mare! That was taken in Lake Tahoe last year this time on Tour. He didn't like that picture, so I'll probably get them a different one (but it is a fave of mine

must to his chagrin)

Marissa · 06-21-2006, 09:03 PM

What a day, I can't fully wrap myself around this yet...but the Lord works in amazing ways. You guys are AMAZING!

I have asked that all calls be made to my business line, it can be found at our training site which is in my profile (I will NOT be checking that box until Friday and it will not be answered, in fact I'm turning the ringer off). Pretty amazing that I crashed that website last night and took it down but only left our contact info on it...

We are keeping the main line open as we are coordinating Organ/Tissue donations and travel right now and I need to be available for calls on that line.

Mark, David and I are blessed to have such a strong community of faith and friends surrounding us. The prayers have been felt and will be for time to come. I will be talking to Belinda (FYI Belinda & Jackie

) about putting up a Memorial Site and guest book tomorrow, so look for that information.

That's about all I can handle, thank you for the calls, but like I said, I need them to go to my other line.

Blessings to each of you.

Marissa

FYI - the page address for the Memorial Site is http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm - that is where any/all specific local details as far as arrangements will be posted as they become available as well. ~Belinda

christy · 06-21-2006, 09:05 PM

Marissa, you absolutely AMAZE me. Your strength is inspiring. Please know that we love you!!

***Steve*** · 06-21-2006, 09:06 PM

If there's anything we can do, just let us know. We are here for you, whatever your needs might be.

jackie · 06-21-2006, 09:08 PM

Marissa you are such a huge part of our BoB family and we're here for you if you need anything. I will be happy to help you with the site or whatever you need and know that Belinda will too. Just say the word.

Huge hugs going out to you and David tonight and each day forward. I have added you and David to our church prayer chain and of course you will be on my mind and in my heart.

MistryUnique · 06-21-2006, 09:08 PM

Thank you for the organ donation - I know it's hard, but God is good. What an awesome gift you are giving people.

May the Lord bless you and hold you and comfort you in the days to come.

If there is any assistance needed (financially) contact your local Lion's Club - they may be able to help.

Misty

***Laura612*** · 06-21-2006, 09:08 PM

JustB · 06-21-2006, 09:36 PM

Marissa, your strength is mind boggling. I am thankful you are surrounded by friends and they are helping you through this difficult time. But, I also think you are helping them cope as well.

Thank you for your gift of life with the donation of Mark's organs. Through you, Mark is able to continue his journey in making this world a better place.

Please take care of yourself and know you have a whole community on BoB that is here for you.

kathi B · 06-21-2006, 09:40 PM

I am at a loss for words but feel that I must say something. Your strength through this is amazing. I cannot imaging what you are going through and my heart is breaking for you. You do not know me but I have been a lurker in this community for such a long time that I feel like I know you. I have followed every post about you, your family and Mark's mission trips. I know he is with his heavenly father watching over you and everyone he loaved. He was a special person and will continue to share his life with many people for years to come through the organ donation.

You, David and all your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that we can do for you do not be afraid to speak up.

Kathi

mikandles · 06-21-2006, 09:43 PM

Bless you and your family!

BunnyOf3 · 06-21-2006, 10:16 PM

Continued prayers for you and David Marissa!!

and

tinkr30 · 06-21-2006, 10:46 PM

Marissa, I love you, my fellow news hound.

You are amazing. You know that God is good and he has a plan.

Take care of you through all this, don't forget that.

Denise

eaglesdare · 06-22-2006, 05:21 AM

Marissa it is so good to hear from you. i just can't stop thinking of you. Please take care of yourself, my fellow 24 fan.

praying.

candlheil · 06-22-2006, 05:54 AM

Marissa,

I am on here to say that you are indeed in my thoughts and prayers. I had a very hard time sleeping last night, so prayed during most of it for you guys. I really wish that I were there so that I could ease some of that heavy load that is on your shoulders. Also sent out some emails to believing family members and our friends from church asking for prayers for all of you.

If there is anything at all that you need, please let us know.

Leah

DebbieLynne · 06-22-2006, 06:01 AM

My uncle was the recipient of a donated heart.

I thank everyone who donates organs. You don't know what this will do for other families. You continue to be in my prayers.

DebbieLynne

2B

odyssey912 · 06-22-2006, 06:07 AM

to you and yours Marissa

Melissa

SheilaWisconsin · 06-22-2006, 06:23 AM

belindaj · 06-22-2006, 06:25 AM

Of course Jackie and I will help you in any way we can when you're ready.

I know right now yo're being inundated with calls and tasks and not being able to absorb all this. Hopefully the massive prayers across the country will continue to hold you and David tight and lift you up through the coming weeks.

glogoddess · 06-22-2006, 06:32 AM

Marissa...it is so awesome to see your strenth shine through. Continued

from me and mine. I've asked for prayers from my community also! You are a dear sweet sister and it is my distinct pleasure to have shared with you the good times and now....do take care of YOU!!!!!

mmm0708 · 06-22-2006, 06:56 AM

Lauri · 06-22-2006, 07:01 AM

for you and David - as said before, your strength amazes me - and through Marks donations, hopefully more lives will be saved - you all are in my thoughts and prayers!

Lauri

*Melinda* · 06-22-2006, 07:22 AM

More prayers and more hugs

janie · 06-22-2006, 07:33 AM

I am still here - you are an amazing woman! Let those around you who love & care for you take care of you & David. Please, its so important to let them, they love you so much! Our family & our church is praying for your family.

Zylafone · 06-22-2006, 07:40 AM

Continued

and

for you and David. I'm glad you made the organ donation decision.

Anne R · 06-22-2006, 07:59 AM

Anne and family. We all are praying for your family.

MindyS · 06-22-2006, 08:06 AM

I am so sorry to hear about your loss - What a wonderful way for Mark to continue to shine in this world - You have changed so many peoples lives forever, may you have peace in knowing that. There are so many people here that love you and are here for whatever you need.
Please take care of yourself! and we will continue to pray for you and your family.

HeidiHo · 06-22-2006, 09:18 AM

Continued prayers...

bella1021 · 06-22-2006, 09:21 AM

continuing the

and

HeidiM · 06-22-2006, 09:27 AM

Marissa:

ers for the coming days and strength for David and you.

~ Heidi

Rainbow · 06-22-2006, 09:29 AM

Continued prayers...

Kim · 06-22-2006, 09:33 AM

Marissa your strength and faith are speaking volumes right now. Continued prayers.

Darleen · 06-22-2006, 09:36 AM

Darleen

melphy · 06-22-2006, 09:43 AM

belindaj · 06-22-2006, 10:05 AM

FYI - the page address for the Memorial Site is http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm - that is where any/all specific local details as far as arrangements will be posted as they become available as well. ~Belinda

*charmedone* · 06-22-2006, 10:18 AM

Thank you Belinda!!!

Kelly

Anne R · 06-22-2006, 10:19 AM

Thanks Belinda

glogoddess · 06-22-2006, 10:22 AM

Thanks for the update Belinda!!!

Kandi · 06-22-2006, 04:19 PM

Any updates on how they are doing? Does anyone know if the youth are coming home early?

Still

and thinking of them

~K~

Marissa · 06-22-2006, 06:22 PM

I'll post this here and it may be merged into the other thread.

I did well last night. David stayed with good friends and had a BLAST with them as always. Pr. John and I explained to him earlier in the day what had happened and that Jesus needed Daddy to take care of the kids in heaven. We also said that Daddy was now with his Daddy and Grandpa who he hasn't seen in a long time. It was explained that he was allowed to be sad or happy and he didn't need to worry about crying or not. He gave me HUGE hugs...he's a good hugger! When asked if he had any questions, you can probably guess..."Can I sleep on Daddys side of the bed? " Yes... "Ok, can I go play gameboy now?"

You betcha! Gotta love that kid!

I spoke to him this morning and he's doing well. He said that he is happy and having fun. I asked him if he remembered where Daddy was and he said "In Heaven with Jesus", this boy will be fine!

Today has been spent on the phone, making travel arrangements for Mark, finalizing Organ donations...being AMAZED at the support that is flowing through...everytiime I think I can't be overwhelmed by generosity, something else is given to me.

We are changing the trust fund for David to a Memorial Fund...members of the Church want to be sure that they can donate regularly to keep Marks Salary coming in for us. They are putting a new roof on my house, they want College $$ for David to be there...they are sending over their landscapers and window washers and members are paying the costs...the list goes on and on...

So that's where we stand. We're aiming for a Wednesday or Thursday Funeral, the Kids will be singing (no old hymns here...we're gonna CELEBRATE!). Mark is eligible for Military Honors so we're exploring that also, I have to talk w/ his family about this.

Once again, Thank you for your calls (I've seen the out of state numbers on the caller ID), prayers and posts. The Guestbook is awesome!

I just spoke to Marks closest ministry support person, the Kids had an AMAZING DAY! Marks Necklace was on the microphone and they sang their hearts out, he said it was their best performance yet...I could hear them laughing and playing in the background and he's going to pass on to them how overjoyed I am to hear that, it's EXACTLY how Mark would want it to be.

Again, you guys are awesome, I can't say that enough.

Blessings to each of you, now go love on your families!

eaglesdare · 06-22-2006, 06:30 PM

oh my....this was very hard to read, i am now sitting here with tears in my eyes.

you are such a strong person marissa!

sending all the

i can send

belindaj · 06-22-2006, 06:32 PM

That is awesome Marissa - I love hearing how your church is supporting you and looking after your future needs as well as present ones.

Don't worry - there's more in the works on the website - it's just going to take some time since I am fully committed the next three days and won't be home hardly at all - but I did want to be sure to get the guestbook up and running today

Traci · 06-22-2006, 06:35 PM

Marissa~
You are a pillar of strength! Continued prayers!

~Traci

*scrapnmyfaith* · 06-22-2006, 06:52 PM

Wow!

I am so glad your church family is pouring out their blessings on you. What an amazing thing they are doing.

I am just speechless at what you have written. You and David will continue to be in my prayers.

glogoddess · 06-22-2006, 07:04 PM

Such an overflow of blessings coming your way. God is really watching out over his faithful servant! May you continue to be overwhelmed with the support and love of all HIS

!!!

Kandi · 06-22-2006, 07:55 PM

Sounds like things are going good, well as good as they can go. Continued prayers for you Marissa, you are constantly on my mind.

~K~

BunnyOf3 · 06-22-2006, 08:39 PM

What an awesome support system, you and your family are truly blessed!

Continued

and

s for you and David!

of3

Lizzie · 06-22-2006, 08:56 PM

Contined

Liz

janie · 06-22-2006, 09:09 PM

God is AMAZING!

tinkr30 · 06-23-2006, 12:23 AM

Wow!

Just a note. As soon as I read this Judy Garland starting singing Over the Rainbow.

Denise

Lynn · 06-23-2006, 04:29 AM

Denise that is very weird, but

Marissa, I cannot get you and David out of my mind.....

you

Carrie · 06-23-2006, 06:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by eaglesdare

oh my....this was very hard to read, i am now sitting here with tears in my eyes.

you are such a strong person marissa!

sending all the

i can send

My thoughts exactly - the strength you have Marissa is amazing - I am so glad you have that much support. You make me want to become a better person!

Carrie

AW$UMone · 06-23-2006, 06:22 AM

Quote:

oh my....this was very hard to read, i am now sitting here with tears in my eyes.

I have been keeping my others in the whats happening & I just had to read it to a friend. They send thier

Marrissa~ Remeber the power of prayer.

~Angie~

Gena · 06-23-2006, 06:26 AM

Quote:

"Can I sleep on Daddys side of the bed? " Yes... "

Wow, that did me in.

I am so impressed by the church stepping up like they are. That is what a church family is for.

I am glad you are surrounded by people who love you, and that the Lord has give David such peace over this. Remember we are only a post/call/email away if you need anything!!!!

DawnaJ · 06-23-2006, 06:36 AM

I am so thankful you have the support and blessings you have through this. You are still in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could be there with you.

Yes, Mark would have wanted this to be a celebration of his life and of his going to be with his Lord.

I think he would be very pleased.

Zylafone · 06-23-2006, 07:29 AM

Oh, Marissa! You are such a strong woman. It sounds like David will be just fine - a strong little boy (wonder where he got that from?). I'm so glad that your church family is really stepping in to help you and support you in so many ways. I think the overwhelming amount of support they are giving you speaks volumes about how wonderful Mark was and how wonderful you and David are.

Thank God for all of your

.

mbuttercup7 · 06-23-2006, 07:38 AM

Brat! · 06-23-2006, 07:43 AM

LOVE YOU Riss, my friend!

I am so thankful that you are receiving support from everyone. I am sure Mark is looking down at all of this with a humble heart. Continued prayers and huge

for you and David.

Carol

Anne R · 06-23-2006, 09:16 AM

It is wonderful to hear that they are stepping up and helping with all that needs to be done. Music to my ears that David is doing so well and you.

On a side note, after the initial shock when I told Josh about Mark and You, a few hours later he says 'if she needs anyone to do yard work, I'll do it for her, anything she needs or needs help with, I'm more than happy to help.' I'll let him know it is already being taken care of.

odyssey912 · 06-23-2006, 09:27 AM

Marissa - we have never met but just reading through the posts and seeing the threads the last couple of days you are an amazing person

I can also see how special Mark was to everyone and his life will certainly be celebrated. I had to giggle and cry at the same time when you posted David's response - what an inspirational little boy

Continued

Melissa

mtcandlelady · 06-23-2006, 09:48 AM

Marissa
continued

You are an amazing woman, I have always thought so, and now you prove it again with your strength and Love for your family and your beautiful little boy!
What awonderful church you are part of!!
I am so glad that they are all there for you at this time.

What a wonderful celebration it must of been!

Cheryl

Lauri · 06-23-2006, 09:49 AM

What wonderful support you are receiving! You are so strong - and sounds like you and David are going to make it - god bless you both!

Lauri

Stacy · 06-23-2006, 10:21 AM

What a beautiful post. Your church family and friends are beautiful.

S

Leah · 06-23-2006, 10:59 AM

Continued

ers and

to you and David.

Marissa · 06-23-2006, 05:46 PM

The Memorial Site:http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm
(has been updated with more inclusive details of what happened Wednesday.

Thanks to each and every one of you again...

Gena · 06-23-2006, 06:23 PM

I couldn't get the link to work, so here is the one from earlier in the thread.

Marissa.

LindaEnergizerToney · 06-23-2006, 08:37 PM

Marissa -

I haven't posted on here in a very long time, but I wanted to say my thoughts are with you. As others have said - it's unimaginable to think of what you're going through. Couple of comments and observations...

FIRST - I'm glad I caught you on the phone the other night - I was expecting to simply leave a message with your sister, and was surprised, and pleased you took the phone. I was at a loss for words, and after I hung up, I kept thinking how amazingly strong your voice sounded, and how in control you seemed!!

NEXT - I know it's at great cost and an immense sacrifice, but the generosity you are showing with organ donation amazes me!!! You will be responsible not only for improved health for some, but actually for the lives of others. What a wonderful legacy from your husband.

FINALLY - It appears you have an enormous support system. There's not much I can do for you from NY, but I'll add my offer to the countless others - if you need a venting session - you know how to find me.

When my MIL lost her battle to cancer in 1984 a card we received noted:

"After a birth, there is crying, while those who watch, smile, and after a death, there is smiling while those who watch, cry." That thought has stayed with me all these years, and I often think of it.

Stacy · 06-24-2006, 12:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LindaEnergizerToney

"After a birth, there is crying, while those who watch, smile, and after a death, there is smiling while those who watch, cry." That thought has stayed with me all these years, and I often think of it.

Wow. That's so powerful.

S

Mare · 06-24-2006, 03:44 AM

What a beautiful memorial site! I pray the Lord continues to bless you abundantly Marissa and David.

Marissa · 06-25-2006, 12:39 AM

I continue to be amazed by this Journey, I will start journaling it on my Blog I suppose but for now it goes here. There was a story on our main newspapers website last night, and tonight it is on one of our major news stations, apparently the AP has picked it up somehow. http://www.kgw.com/news-local/storie....ba78fd59.html

Mare · 06-25-2006, 12:46 AM

Awww, what an awesome article about Mark, and an awesome picture too!!

Marissa · 06-25-2006, 12:57 AM

Thanks Mare! That was taken in Lake Tahoe last year this time on Tour. He didn't like that picture, so I'll probably get them a different one (but it is a fave of mine

must to his chagrin)

06-21-2006, 09:03 PM	#1
Marissa questioning my sanity Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oregon Posts: 14,776	Thank You... What a day, I can't fully wrap myself around this yet...but the Lord works in amazing ways. You guys are AMAZING! I have asked that all calls be made to my business line, it can be found at our training site which is in my profile (I will NOT be checking that box until Friday and it will not be answered, in fact I'm turning the ringer off). Pretty amazing that I crashed that website last night and took it down but only left our contact info on it... We are keeping the main line open as we are coordinating Organ/Tissue donations and travel right now and I need to be available for calls on that line. Mark, David and I are blessed to have such a strong community of faith and friends surrounding us. The prayers have been felt and will be for time to come. I will be talking to Belinda (FYI Belinda & Jackie ) about putting up a Memorial Site and guest book tomorrow, so look for that information. That's about all I can handle, thank you for the calls, but like I said, I need them to go to my other line. Blessings to each of you. Marissa FYI - the page address for the Memorial Site is http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm - that is where any/all specific local details as far as arrangements will be posted as they become available as well. ~Belinda
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JustB Registered User Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 2,400	Marissa, your strength is mind boggling. I am thankful you are surrounded by friends and they are helping you through this difficult time. But, I also think you are helping them cope as well. Thank you for your gift of life with the donation of Mark's organs. Through you, Mark is able to continue his journey in making this world a better place. Please take care of yourself and know you have a whole community on BoB that is here for you.
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06-21-2006, 09:40 PM	#8
kathi B Here Kitty Kitty Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 3,252	I am at a loss for words but feel that I must say something. Your strength through this is amazing. I cannot imaging what you are going through and my heart is breaking for you. You do not know me but I have been a lurker in this community for such a long time that I feel like I know you. I have followed every post about you, your family and Mark's mission trips. I know he is with his heavenly father watching over you and everyone he loaved. He was a special person and will continue to share his life with many people for years to come through the organ donation. You, David and all your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that we can do for you do not be afraid to speak up. Kathi
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Wednesday, June 21, 2006

Thank You...

06-21-2006, 09:05 PM	#2
christy Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,853	Marissa, you absolutely AMAZE me. Your strength is inspiring. Please know that we love you!!

06-21-2006, 09:08 PM	#5
MistryUnique Coolest mom in the world! Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Southern Missouri Posts: 5,473	Thank you for the organ donation - I know it's hard, but God is good. What an awesome gift you are giving people. May the Lord bless you and hold you and comfort you in the days to come. If there is any assistance needed (financially) contact your local Lion's Club - they may be able to help. Misty

06-21-2006, 09:08 PM	#6
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06-21-2006, 09:43 PM	#9
mikandles Registered User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Anchorage, AK Posts: 10,734	Bless you and your family!

06-21-2006, 10:16 PM	#10
BunnyOf3 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 3,138	Continued prayers for you and David Marissa!! and

06-21-2006, 10:46 PM	#11
tinkr30 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Louisville, Ky Posts: 1,600	Marissa, I love you, my fellow news hound. You are amazing. You know that God is good and he has a plan. Take care of you through all this, don't forget that. Denise

06-22-2006, 05:21 AM	#12
eaglesdare Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,134	Marissa it is so good to hear from you. i just can't stop thinking of you. Please take care of yourself, my fellow 24 fan. praying.

06-22-2006, 05:54 AM	#13
candlheil Government Wife Asteroids Champion! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: united states Posts: 9,553	Marissa, I am on here to say that you are indeed in my thoughts and prayers. I had a very hard time sleeping last night, so prayed during most of it for you guys. I really wish that I were there so that I could ease some of that heavy load that is on your shoulders. Also sent out some emails to believing family members and our friends from church asking for prayers for all of you. If there is anything at all that you need, please let us know. Leah

06-22-2006, 06:01 AM	#14
DebbieLynne Registered User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: On The Banks of Stony Creek Posts: 3,944	My uncle was the recipient of a donated heart. I thank everyone who donates organs. You don't know what this will do for other families. You continue to be in my prayers. DebbieLynne 2B

06-22-2006, 06:07 AM	#15
odyssey912 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 4,421	to you and yours Marissa Melissa

06-22-2006, 06:23 AM	#16
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06-22-2006, 06:25 AM	#17
belindaj Technical Staff Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Odessa, MO Posts: 23,233	Of course Jackie and I will help you in any way we can when you're ready. I know right now yo're being inundated with calls and tasks and not being able to absorb all this. Hopefully the massive prayers across the country will continue to hold you and David tight and lift you up through the coming weeks.

06-22-2006, 06:32 AM	#18
glogoddess Registered User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Las Animas, Colorado Posts: 3,935	Marissa...it is so awesome to see your strenth shine through. Continued from me and mine. I've asked for prayers from my community also! You are a dear sweet sister and it is my distinct pleasure to have shared with you the good times and now....do take care of YOU!!!!!

06-22-2006, 06:56 AM	#19
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	Melissa “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” ~Dr. Seuss

06-22-2006, 07:01 AM	#20
Lauri Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: NY Posts: 2,603	for you and David - as said before, your strength amazes me - and through Marks donations, hopefully more lives will be saved - you all are in my thoughts and prayers! Lauri

06-22-2006, 07:22 AM	#21
Melinda Amazing grace! Deal or No Deal Champion! Mine Sweeper Champion! Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: North Central Texas Posts: 17,486	More prayers and more hugs

06-22-2006, 07:33 AM	#22
janie Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 15,692	I am still here - you are an amazing woman! Let those around you who love & care for you take care of you & David. Please, its so important to let them, they love you so much! Our family & our church is praying for your family.
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06-22-2006, 07:40 AM	#23
Zylafone Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Englewood, CO Posts: 9,270	Continued and for you and David. I'm glad you made the organ donation decision.

06-22-2006, 07:59 AM	#24
Anne R Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Oregon Posts: 1,689	Anne and family. We all are praying for your family.

06-22-2006, 08:06 AM	#25
MindyS Inactive Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 367	I am so sorry to hear about your loss - What a wonderful way for Mark to continue to shine in this world - You have changed so many peoples lives forever, may you have peace in knowing that. There are so many people here that love you and are here for whatever you need. Please take care of yourself! and we will continue to pray for you and your family.
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06-22-2006, 09:18 AM	#26
HeidiHo Back in Va Beach! Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Va Beach Posts: 12,333	Continued prayers...

06-22-2006, 09:21 AM	#27
bella1021 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 1,806	continuing the and

06-22-2006, 09:27 AM	#28
HeidiM Registered User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: NE, Ohio Posts: 2,837	Marissa: ers for the coming days and strength for David and you. ~ Heidi

06-22-2006, 09:29 AM	#29
Rainbow Registered User Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 662	Continued prayers...
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06-22-2006, 09:33 AM	#30
Kim Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 3,419	Marissa your strength and faith are speaking volumes right now. Continued prayers.
Kim Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 3,419	Faithful servant and willing hands, feet and voice for Christ! ><>

06-22-2006, 09:36 AM	#31
Darleen Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Lafayette, La. Posts: 5,427	Darleen

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06-22-2006, 10:05 AM	#33
belindaj Technical Staff Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Odessa, MO Posts: 23,233	FYI - the page address for the Memorial Site is http://cascadefirstaid.com/marks_memorial.htm - that is where any/all specific local details as far as arrangements will be posted as they become available as well. ~Belinda

06-22-2006, 10:18 AM	#34
charmedone Spring has sprung??? Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: University Place, Washington Posts: 3,771	Thank you Belinda!!! Kelly

06-22-2006, 10:19 AM	#35
Anne R Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Oregon Posts: 1,689	Thanks Belinda